Hi, Bitchy Readers!
I'd like to begin with a message from my Instagram inbox, shared with permission.
"Last Christmas I met a friend that I hadn't seen for a few years. We caught up and I told her I didn't feel capable of being happy raising children. She's a mother of two and she said to me "Honey, you don't need to make your life complicated". I really appreciated her understanding and acceptance and I feel less guilty. I used to feel very guilty for feeling overwhelmed by the thought of having children. I just needed to accept that I didn't want to put up with all the things that come along with children. So, I often remind myself that it is OK to keep my life simple."
Thank you to my friend for letting me share her thoughts. This touches on something I rarely write about: guilt for not wanting kids.
As I grow to appreciate and connect deeper with myself, I'm grateful I didn't cave to the pressure of having kids. Guilt has not been a part of my childfree experience but I recognize that many people do feel it.
I've been meditating a lot recently. This is something I do when I go into survival mode. Those moments when I have no clear answer or direction. Last weekend, I stood at the kitchen sink while listening to an affirmation video on YouTube.
An idea came to me.
What about meditations specifically for childfree people?
Whether you are decidedly childfree or still unsure, leveling up on your confidence and inner peace is always beneficial.
Before you tell me that meditating isn't your thing, I'll mention that these videos are super easy. I guide you through the 5 minutes. You can keep your eyes closed or watch the scenic images on the screen.
Meditating creates a space free of judgment and worry. New ideas can flow to you and your body relaxes.
Check out the Bitchy Bookkeeper Youtube channel for all 3 meditation videos and the Childfree Affirmations video. Don't forget to subscribe!
"This is your life. This is your choice. You can have a wonderful, loving, fulfilled and content, childfree life."
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LeNora FayeThe Bitchy Bookkeeper
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